Safe Return Doubtful

By Peter Block

We live in a market culture that organizes itself around scarcity and barter. What’s in it for you, what’s in it for me, let’s make a deal. It treats us as if we are essentially economic beings, motivated by self-interest. As if we believe, as Adam Smith wrote, that without self-interest, no butcher will cut your meat for a meal tonight.

Aligned with the belief in self-interest, we are seduced by the desire to know what will happen next. In many ways, organizational life is designed for control and predictability. This is almost an organizing principle of management. Do anything that you want, just don’t surprise me.

This passion for certainty surfaces even when organizations declare they seek innovation. The first question on anything new –– no matter where: private sector, city hall, social service, or philanthropy –– is “where has it worked elsewhere?” Makes me want to move to a city called “Elsewhere.”

Now is a moment to seriously question how we respond to the worship of barter, self-interest, and predictability. Especially in the workplace. Especially in the community sector. This is also calling to us by a generation that leans toward purpose over promise. Purpose over upward mobility. A signal from people who do not want to go back to the office, even if they are ordered to.

Purpose over Promise

Years ago, a friend of mine, Ken Murphy, introduced me to the story of Ernest Shackleton. Ken was an executive with Philip Morris and used the story as a metaphor for the uncertainty that his cigarette company was facing. The story:

In 1915, in England, Sir Ernest Shackleton had a recruiting and retention problem much like we face today. Shackleton was planning a long voyage to cross the Antarctic overland from west to east. He was undercapitalized, was recruiting as the First World War was brewing, and was offering a workplace of difficult and challenging proportions. Shackleton became a popular icon because of his determination and will that saved the lives of his crew after their ship became icebound early in the voyage. What I am more interested in here, however, is not his heroics on the ice, but the faith and realism embodied in his recruitment strategy.

He advertised for his open positions with the following inducements:

Join an Antarctic Expedition! We promise you:

         Low Pay

         Poor Climate          

         Safe Return Doubtful

Shackleton believed that it would be a privilege to be part of his adventure. His advertising got results; 5,000 people applied for the trip. Even though the economic climate in 1915 had its own reality, I think he was onto something for our time. He, in essence, took the stance that the way to recruit and retain people was by naming the opportunity, fragile as it was, and then making demands on them instead of feeding their sense of entitlement and materialism. No barter. No career promise. No venture capital around the corner. You share the risk, not knowing if and when you will be rewarded. Or even come home.

Low Pay, Poor Climate, Safe Return Doubtful

This invitation offers a journey that proposes surprise and a larger meaning that you would be a part of creating. This purpose was compelling to many: to put your feet on land that had previously been unexplored. Perhaps to depart a life that had its own questions. Five thousand people answered Shackleton’s ad, and that was without social media or a digital reach. It was an ad in a newspaper in one city.

What form might “safe return doubtful” take today? Where does the Antarctic reside in the modern market world where our communities and workplaces exist? Are there explorations compelling enough to give up a safe return? To refuse the allure of barter? To depart the call of evidence residing or working elsewhere? Suppose this was “Elsewhere.”

Human Resources and Organization Development the Shackleton Way

For most workplaces, human resources is framed for operationalizing barter and the assumed motivation embodied in the promise of an attractive future. It is assigned the task of finding, training, and keeping people. Organization development is also an important player in this system. Its job is to make this contract of self-interest and future promise work well. For HR, the conventional wisdom is to offer people the possibility of a big and compelling future, and the training to qualify for it. Benefits now and instant wealth upon hiring or coming later with the rising stock price. Salaries and stock options are tools of choice.

This way of thinking and operating may have lost its utility and glamour. When the market is volatile, and the future increasingly unpredictable, we can be frozen in a form of thinking about what attracts good people. Many companies still offer “retention bonuses.” We have become so doubtful about the inherent keeping power of our organizations that we think we have to offer incentives for people just to stay put. Safe staying doubtful.

This same mentality exists in our thinking about how to organize employee learning. This is where training and development groups come in. OD and learning are efforts to help make living in this barter, control, and predictability world more human and relational. Our learning groups also work to make a safe experience likely. We offer easy learning. Long distance, anytime, anywhere, online, in the comfort of your own home, your car, and you can learn in bite sized segments. All useful. All offering safe return likely, easy access likely.  

The training industry also tells you exactly what you will learn, how it will improve your performance, and how the skills are portable. Take this course and here is what you will leave with. We offer programs on nights and weekends so the time comes from your personal life and not your job.  

Whether we are recruiting for employment or for designing for training, the strategy seems the same: Sell, make it convenient and undemanding, and promise a better future path.

Recruiting

If we want to create a workplace of accountability and collective responsibility, we need to contract very differently at the first moment of recruitment. Instead of nurturing entitlement and self-interest, we might confront people with a recruiting offer something like this:

Join Our Organization and Become Part of a Place Where We Learn from You

You help create our culture, our journey, as well as learn how to adapt to who we are. No more onboarding. This partnership takes the form of:

  • You are expected to care primarily for the well-being of the institution and the larger society. We have no mentoring program, offer modest benefits, and have no organized way of planning your career. Cooperation and peer relationships are more important than competing.
  • Our purpose is to do something important and worthwhile. Recognition comes on its own schedule.
  • The chances of getting rich quickly are slim. Only a few players in our industry will really prosper, so come to work at a place where the experience of each day is its own reward and let tomorrow take care of itself. Which it will do anyway.
  • Safe return doubtful. Our company has its risks. The work is hard, the environment is unpredictable, and the management keeps changing its mind. Messages about imminent improvement and optimism about our future are ways of managing the news. 

This kind of promise will attract adventurers with a heart. It defines the meaning of accountability and offers some emotional integrity. It will draw people we can count on, people who cannot be bought with an appealing promise. Based on this offer, the ones that do show up will be the ones you want to build a business with.

Rethinking Retention

People stay in an organization that respects their freedom and gives choice about their learning. Our training efforts would change radically for the better if we solicited participation with an offer similar to the recruiting promise. It might look something like this:  

Choose Among Our Training Offers

Here is what to expect:

  • Your learning is in your hands. We want to support your participation in a long-term learning commitment. This effort requires time, depth, and personal engagement. Nothing of real and lasting value can be achieved in a few hours, on your own, or on the run.
  • Our programs provide experiences where your participation and connection with other learners is at the center. While we offer programs which focus on what we think is essential, you will not be presented with immediately applicable skills, tools, or techniques. Nor will you be asked to end this program with a list of action steps. You have all the skills and tools you need.
  • Our purpose is to shift our thinking and consider the possibility of creating meaning. Simply choosing to go to and reach our Antarctica is the point. Especially since it is getting warmer.
  • You will not be asked to evaluate the presenters, only to evaluate the quality of your own participation.
  • Come by choice. If others want you to attend, stay away. If your boss thinks this experience would be good for you, ask why. Then make your decision. You know what you want and need to learn. Come if this fits. The years of being a good son or daughter are over. Besides, by design, for our live events, the food is mediocre, the chairs are uncomfortable, and the location inconvenient.
  • One useful question in choosing is “What courage is required of me now?”  

The Point

These offers, while a little extreme, reflect life as it usually turns out to be. Plus, when we approach recruiting and retention as a marketing and selling task, we devalue ourselves. When we treat employment as something people have to be talked into, we are converting our own doubts into institutional practice. Institutionalizing us as partners rather than parents is a shift worth considering.

By the way, the real trip to the Antarctic ended with the ship hopelessly stuck on an ice floe. It sank. The crew made it to solid ice. And then waited. Shackleton heroically took a small boat to seek help and succeeded against all odds in saving the crew and getting them to safety. Safe return, though not promised, did occur.

Empowering Consultants to Navigate Turbulent Times

By Beverly Crowell

As organizations continue to face unprecedented times, internal consultants are facing significant challenges that require not only technical expertise but also exceptional interpersonal skills and strategic insight. And it doesn’t matter if your job title includes the word consultant. If you are helping others inside your organization to manage all these challenges, you are most likely consulting.

During these times of change, one of the core tenets of success is the importance of building trust and credibility with internal clients. When uncertainty is high and resistance to new ideas can be strong, establishing a foundation of trust becomes even more crucial. In our Flawless Consulting® programs, we emphasize the need for consultants to be authentic, transparent, and empathetic in their interactions. By demonstrating genuine concern for their clients’ well-being and success, they can foster a collaborative environment where open communication and mutual respect thrive.

Another key aspect of our flawless methodology is the concept of effective contracting. This involves clearly defining the roles, expectations, and responsibilities of both the consultant and the internal client at the outset of the engagement. During periods of significant change, this clarity is essential to ensure that all parties are aligned and working towards common goals. Our program advises consultants to engage in honest and direct conversations about the scope of work, desired outcomes, and potential challenges. This proactive approach helps to prevent misunderstandings and sets the stage for a successful consulting relationship.

Even with good contracting, resistance is likely and as such internal consultants must be adept at managing it. The Flawless Consulting framework provides valuable strategies for addressing resistance in a constructive manner. Consultants learn to acknowledge the emotions and concerns behind the resistance rather than dismissing them. By validating clients’ feelings and involving them in the problem-solving process, consultants can transform resistance into engagement and commitment.

Facilitating meaningful conversations is also particularly relevant during times of extreme change. Consultants must create spaces where clients feel safe to express their thoughts and fears through the use of open-ended questions, active listening, and reflective feedback to deepen the dialogue and uncover underlying issues. These conversations help to build a shared understanding of the challenges at hand and generate innovative solutions that are informed from diverse perspectives.

In addition to being a valuable resource for internal clients, we believe that consultants should also strive to build their clients’ capabilities and confidence, rather than fostering dependency on external expertise. During periods of change, this empowerment is critical as it enables clients to take ownership of the transformation process. Our programs advise consultants to transfer knowledge, skills, and tools that clients can use to navigate future challenges independently. This approach not only enhances the immediate impact of the consulting engagement but also contributes to the long-term resilience of the organization.

Finally, our programs underscore the necessity for consultants to be adaptable and flexible in their approach. Change is often unpredictable, and consultants must be prepared to adjust their strategies and methodologies in response to evolving circumstances. Flawless Consulting advocates for a mindset of continuous learning and reflection, encouraging consultants to seek feedback, evaluate their performance, and refine their practices. This adaptability not only enhances the consultant’s effectiveness but also models the resilience and agility that clients need during times of change.

Flawless Consulting is the robust framework which helps develop a consultant’s agility and resilience. To help make it accessible, we offer 90-minute intensives on key topics from Flawless Consulting, four-hour overviews on the basics and multi-day learning experiences where participants not only learn the key concepts but put them into practice. If you are interested in learning more, let’s talk.

8 Strategies To Elevate Your HRBP Role And Drive Organizational Success

Stop Being an HR Order-Taker, Become a Trusted Advisor

By Beverly Crowell
Managing Partner, Designed Learning

As a Human Resource Business Partner (HRBP), you have expertise that is critical for the survival and growth of the organization. Unfortunately, many HRBPs find themselves being underutilized, overworked with transactional tasks, and being asked to “fix” things and people.

If you are an HRBP, do you find yourself frustrated when:

  • Your leaders come to you at the last minute to implement something?
  • You aren’t involved early enough in the process to influence decisions and share your ideas?
  • Most of your day is spent putting out fires and not focusing on strategic issues?
  • You have so much more expertise to offer the organization, but they don’t appreciate it or even ask for your expertise?
  • You are asked to “handle” tough conversations, “problem” people, and fix them?

HRBPs want to have their expertise utilized and be treated as trusted advisors, but internal clients or key stakeholders don’t know how to utilize them or worse, they don’t want to utilize them in this way. The good news is that HRBPs can adjust their own approach and behavior to be better utilized.

Many times, with the best intentions, they have trained their leaders to treat them the way they do. In the spirit of customer satisfaction and “the customer is always right”, HRBPs end up agreeing to do what clients ask, even when it’s not the best thing for them or the organization. In fact, many leaders inside organizations don’t even know they can partner with their HR Business Partners in any other way.

What is this other way? HRBPs play a critical role in shaping the workforce and driving organizational success. With the increasing complexity of today’s business environment, they must possess not only a deep understanding of HR practices but also strong consulting skills to effectively address and resolve organizational challenges. It is learning to influence where they have no direct control.

Here are eight ways to stop being an order-taker for your clients and instead a trusted advisor where you work in collaboration to create solutions that work the first time.

Building Trust and Credibility

For HRBPs, establishing a solid foundation of trust is essential in gaining the confidence of both business leaders and employees. As such, they must be authentic, transparent, and reliable in their interactions. By adopting these principles, HRBPs can foster stronger relationships with their clients, leading to more open and honest communication. This, in turn, enables HRBPs to better understand the underlying issues within the organization and provide more effective solutions. As noted by Peter Block in Flawless Consulting: A Guide to Getting Your Expertise Used, “Consulting isn’t just about offering expertise – it’s about building authentic relationships and fostering trust.”

Effective Contracting

Creating effective agreements, or contracting, is a crucial step in the partnering process with internal clients, as it sets the expectations and boundaries for the engagement. For HRBPs, mastering the art of contracting can help ensure that their consulting engagements are structured and goal oriented. This not only helps in managing client expectations but also provides a clear roadmap for achieving desired outcomes. By establishing clear agreements, HRBPs can enhance their ability to deliver impactful results.

Diagnosing Organizational Issues

A key aspect of partnering with internal clients is the ability to accurately diagnose organizational issues. For HRBPs, this diagnostic process is invaluable in uncovering the underlying factors contributing to workplace challenges. By being curious and using various methods of discovery, HRBPs can conduct thorough assessments that go beyond surface-level symptoms, enabling them to develop targeted interventions.

Providing Feedback and Recommendations

Providing constructive feedback and actionable recommendations is a critical component of the consulting process. HRBPs must be skilled in delivering feedback in a manner that is both respectful and impactful. This means effectively communicating their findings and proposed solutions by being clear and specific with a focus on positive outcomes. By leveraging these principles, HRBPs can present their recommendations in a way that resonates with clients and motivates them to act.

Managing Resistance

Resistance is a common challenge in consulting engagements, as clients may be hesitant to embrace change. For HRBPs, understanding the sources of resistance and addressing them proactively is crucial in ensuring the success of their initiatives. HRBPs should work to manage this resistance by building rapport, demonstrating empathy, and involving clients in the change process. By adopting these strategies instead of ignoring what’s causing the resistance, HRBPs can navigate it more effectively and create a collaborative environment for implementing solutions.

Implementing Solutions

The ultimate goal of consulting is to implement solutions that drive positive organizational outcomes. For HRBPs, this means following a consistent process or framework to help ensure that their solutions are executed effectively and achieve the desired results. By emphasizing the importance of continuous improvement, regularly assessing the impact of their interventions, HRBPs can enhance the sustainability and effectiveness of their solutions.

Developing Client Competence

To help create self-sufficient and high-performing organizations, HRBPs should work to develop their client competence. Rather than creating dependency, advocate for empowering clients to address their own challenges in the future. Provide clients with the tools, knowledge, and skills needed to sustain improvements over the long term. By fostering a culture of continuous learning and development, HRBPs can help build organizational resilience and capability. They can also help ensure solutions are more fully implemented and sustained.

Stop Being Helpful and Start Being Useful

Perhaps the biggest challenge for any HRBP is to stop seeing support of their clients under the mental model of the “customer is always right.” Certainly, there are times when being helpful is exactly what is needed. More often than not, however, what they need is for HRBPs to show up as more than a “pair of hands.” Instead, use these expert consulting techniques to co-create solutions with the people you serve. Even if clients don’t know it yet, they prefer a partner over someone who simply tells them how to fix things. It’s more than helpful, it’s useful.


Published originally in the February 2025 CHRO Excellence: HR Strategy & Implementation and HCM Sales, Marketing & Alliance Excellence magazines.

For more information on how Designed Learning can help you master these eight strategies, check out our Flawless Consulting® program or call 1.248.701.5928 for more information.

Tattoos of the Mind

By Peter Block

Transformation occurs first in the mind. It is then triggered in an infinite number of ways. What each entails is a shift in narrative. A shift in the story we choose to live into. Each entails a movement away from our historical way of naming our being in the world. Then discovering and choosing new words that name the future we aspire to. It is the moment when we decide to choose a future distinct from the past. 

What anchors each form of transformation is a brief way of speaking of the aspiration. A phrase or a sentence that captures something essential. It is a marker that is always available.  

Some markers are for a city or a country: 

One nation, under God, with liberty and justice for all.
We, the people. . . .
Four score and seven years ago our fathers brought forth on this continent, a new nation, conceived in Liberty, and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal.  

These markers appear in history, they appear on statues and on buildings. There are also markers that each of us holds within. 

My daughter, Jennifer, became attracted to tattoos. As they expanded over her body, I asked her what the tattoos meant to her. She said each one represented a transformation in her life. Together they were an art form that documented her path of what was occurring with her, what meant most to her, what she wanted to name and remember.  

So it is with the phrases and sayings each of us was touched by and retains. They are tattoos of the mind rather than the skin, markers of transformation, not just improvement and steps forward. They are an art form in their own way, to capture the nuance of consciousness and meaning. 

These tattoos come in the form of one-liners or short quotes. In sharing them we are reminded of who we are, who we aspire to be, and how we find our commonality. They are not just what I may post on my mirror, or screen or wall, but statements, in the sharing, that bring us together. When we make our shift in story public and visible we generously make known to others what becomes a piece of a communal transformation we are living into and, in the sharing, what reduces our isolation. 

Here are two that I am unable to erase. 

I am warning you that if you argue with me, I will take your side. 
Peter Koestenbaum

This warning awakened me to the idea that certain conversations don’t take us anywhere. Opinions, points of view, evidence-based being are real, interesting but to argue about them becomes a contest, even if expressed with kindness and enjoyment. They are interesting but reinforce the illusion that being right is more important than being connected or surprised. Of course, we are interested in each other’s view of the world, but arguing, debating, persuading is very different from curiosity.

This tattoo––If you argue with me, I will take your side––affirms that certainty keeps us apart. I can strongly believe in something and can also recognize that this does not mean it is right. It is also liberating, in that I can express a point of view knowing that I do not have to defend it.

All transformation is linguistic.  
Werner Erhardt

This statement was a shock to my system. It made a distinction between words that create a world and words that are just talk. I had believed that the stories I tell about myself, my history, this moment actually stand for something. I was missing the insight that they are fictions I have created, conclusions I have drawn, that were useful for a moment but keep me frozen from an alternative future. They express the idea that who I am can be explained by where I have been. As if my past is the cause of my present. 

This tattoo is a symbol giving shape to the insight that healing occurs when we re-remember our past in a more forgiving way. This is the core function of all the ways we choose to shift our way of being.

We give still importance to people telling their story. It is useful for being seen and valued, but the third time we tell our story, and act as if it is true, it becomes an obstacle to living into a future of our own creation. When transformation is known to be a matter of language, claiming our freedom takes the form of naming an alternative story, chosen in this moment, independent of what is occurring in the world, or not burdened by a change being required from those around us.     

A personal example: My historical story was that I am a loner. A gypsy. A permanent observer of life and the world around me. There came a moment in a workshop I was running in Cincinnati, where I lived. At that moment in the event, all in the room were asked “what courage is required of you now?”  

Damon, a friend in our small group, looked at me––gypsy, facilitator of the session––and said, “Well, Peter, what courage is required of you now?” I chose to answer. “I am afraid of going public with all the ideas I easily express in communities other than my own. I am afraid my skin is too thin to live with the consequences of my actions.” At that moment, in answering that question, I chose to no longer hold onto the story of myself as a permanent outsider but take on the one where I am a participant and citizen of where I lived. This took years to take shape, but the transformation began with those words. A story reconstructed in a conversation.     

Is the idea that all transformation is linguistic true? Perhaps not. But it is uncomfortably useful. It leads us into questions and conversations, that in the act of answering and engaging, we become agents in the world we inhabit. Which may be the point of it all.